Sods Law Magnet
I have often heard using the phrase “Sods Law”. It has been a phrase that I remember being used for most of my life. As my friends will tell you, often in my paranoid ramblings I rant about how my life some how invokes Sods Law at every turn. Today was no exception from this…
Having started this blog just yesterday to help me deal with the shit that may arise in my life, a huge fucking turd drops from the heavens on top of me. It didn’t take long for this blog to get tested on whether it helps me to deal with stuff, so far it seems to be going well.
Today started off as any other cold, gray, Monday morning with me having to drag my arse to the station to get to college for an early morning business lesson that sends me right back to sleep. Today however it was worse then usual. This was due to the fact that my girlfriend Laura, who I sit next to in business, had dropped the bombshell on me that after the lesson “We need to talk”. When you hear that phrase, you just know stuff is about to go bad.
Quite ironic that she said “We need to talk” considering how very little talking she actually did, she let me decipher her side of the conversation from a series of eye movements. Anyway long story short we broke up. When asking why she wanted to break up with me I got the longest sentence she contributed that whole conversation – “I don’t know”
Now I am no expert on the female mind, far from it, but I am pretty sure you know why you are doing something like that. I am now left to assume the worst. The worst in my case is that she has left me for some 20 year old guy she met a couple of weeks ago when he started flirting with her at a party and has been texting non-stop since.
It’s not like I have been going out with her a long time but it’s rare I find a girl I can get along with. I have never met a girl that I felt had a personality I could truly connect with on a romantic level. I am not saying I haven’t had girls that I like in a way more then friends, I have just never felt that this could be someone that I have a serious relationship with and can not necessarily see an end in sight. That was till I met Laura.
Several of my friends and even people I wasn’t so friendly with warned me that dating Laura was not the best idea. Most of them used the term “she’s weird”. This didn’t really bother me however as I am rather weird myself. In fact if anything it intrigued me more. Now the shit has hit the fan I am expecting to
hear many comments along the lines of “I told you so”
Oh how I can’t wait.
November 8, 2007 at 19:03
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